Immediate Concerns

When someone you care about has experienced sexual violence, it can be difficult to know how to help. This guide provides information and support for friends and family of sexual assault survivors.

Immediate Concerns

The time immediately following a sexual assault is often filled with intense emotions and confusion. It’s important to address these key areas:

Safety

Ensure the person is in a safe environment. Offer emotional support and encourage them to seek further assistance. Contact your local rape crisis center for free and confidential counseling and support or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 (HOPE).

Medical Attention

A medical exam can identify injuries that may not be visible. Medical professionals can also provide treatment for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), pregnancy prevention medication (emergency contraception), and conduct a forensic exam to collect evidence. Hospitals may have different policies regarding the timeframe for evidence collection.

Reporting the Assault

If the victim goes to the hospital, the hospital will likely report the crime to the police. The survivor is not required to speak with the police to have a forensic exam. They can decide later whether to talk to the police.

After a report is made, the prosecutor’s office can decide to file criminal charges. The prosecutor’s office evaluates whether a crime occurred, what charges can be filed, and whether the crime can be proven beyond a reasonable doubt.

Counseling

Survivors and their loved ones may need help processing the emotions that arise after a sexual assault. Sexual assault is a serious crime with both short-term and long-term effects on victims and those close to them.

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